>University Rejection is Not the End of the World
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It’s very difficult not to take rejection personally, but unless you want to end up a twisted, bitter person with a beef against the entire world you really should learn to take it on the chin. Universities reject applications for a number of reasons and not because they don’t think some people are better than others.
Many departments are notoriously difficult to get into, physiotherapy and engineering, for instance. Universities receive masses of applications but may only be able to accommodate less than 100 students. There is often a way around cases like this.
Many universities advise prospective students to choose at least two study options, which double their chances of being accepted. It’s recommended that the second or third options support the first choice in some way. This means that they should contain many of the same subjects so that students can transfer to their first option once they’ve proven themselves capable with good grades and once the student drop-out rate settles. It’s inevitable that some students always drop out, leaving vacancies for those just waiting for a chance.
Universities also have quota systems, which are based on race, disability and gender. Then there is the small matter of sport. Universities take great pride in their sporting prowess and have been known to accept students based almost entirely on their athletic ability.
There are several things you can do to lessen the blow of rejection:
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A very sensible method is to apply to more than one university. Of course, you’ll have your favourite but chances are that there are plenty of other universities that offer similar degrees. Don’t shun institutions just because they aren’t famous or because none of your friends are going, spread your applications around and chances are good you’ll still be able to follow your dreams.
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Start off slowly at small local colleges or with some online or correspondence courses. Most universities recognise prior learning, not only in terms of subjects passed but also as evidence of persistence and dedication, both of which are admirable qualities.
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Take a gap year and use the time to travel, work and generally get more life-smart.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. (And parents, don’t put too much pressure on your kids.) If you don’t make it this year there is always the next.
Sandy writes for a number of different blogs, on a number of different topics, including Microsoft Excel courses, advertising, travel, technology and the environment.
